You’re at a club partying with some of your friends.You notice a guy eyeing you from across the room.Eventually he comes over to talk to you. Small talk after small talk, things seem to be going well. At least for now. Then comes the sharp turn.
“Why are you single? You’re so great!” “You’re too pretty to be single.”To the person who said I’m “too pretty to be single”, please stop asking females (or anyone really) these questions.
Have you ever thought that maybe she’s single because she wants to be? Or because her focus isn’t on relationships but on herself and her future?Men I’m sure think it’s some kind of compliment. I however, find it annoying and it needs to stop
Since when do looks have anything to do with being single? I’ve seen as many really conventionally-unattractive people happy in relationships as I’ve seen conventionally-attractive people happily single. Looks don’t have a whole lot to do with one’s ability to be in a relationship.
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Instead of just being outright insulting, one could ask an attractive woman why she is single (which is only slightly less insulting). When you phrase it as a question, it at least gives consideration to the woman’s thoughts and needs around relationships. I’m single because I have ridiculously high standards.Having the statement in question form allows for the guy to learn something about the woman and potentially open up a conversation- which, strangely, greatly improves the chance of a relationship starting which is what you’re there for, right?
Possible Calm Answers to “You’re So Pretty. Why Are You Still Single”? are:”I didn’t realize the two were connected.” This should be said with a smile, otherwise it can come across as sarcastic.
The other possible answer is: “If only it were that simple.” Also say it with a smile.
Beauty does not define or determine one’s worth. Single or in a relationship also does not define and determine one’s worth. Some people are happy being single and aren’t ready to settle down. Some haven’t found the right person to settle down with just yet.
Contrary to popular belief, being single can be a choice.
