Do you want the good news or the bad news? It seems the potential to have a relationship with a Drama Queen is harder than you’d expect!
We’ve all met, been friends with, had family members, shared houses with and silently observed women who love to create drama.
Worse they’re usually the women (sometimes but rarely men) who want to describe their trials with their partners indepth. While they’re recounting these horrors it’s wise to turn off the volume where you can.
Scientific research has found women feel happy when their husbands or partners are upset. Which completely confirms that Drama Queens love it.
The survey found that when men realized their wives or girlfriends were angry the women reported being happier, although the men were not. Few surprises there.
It seems Drama Queens are pleased when their partner showed emotion because they believe it demonstrates a healthy relationship.
These attention seekers (aka Drama Queen’s) are in constant need of re-assurance and affirmation that someone cares for them and wants to protect them. The correlation sadly between the amount of drama these women create revolves around the amount women believe they’re being cared for and protected, and sadly that’s whether it’s real or perceived.
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To the feminists out there – we know that last paragraph made you queasy. Rightly or wrongly some women interpret men’s lower emotion or drama baseline as evidence of their withdrawing love and potentially withdrawn resources.
For some women, if their men are stoic, self-satisfied, dutiful, honourable providers, the beta male, for women who crave drama, these men can be construed as boring. They’re not but that’s the Drama Queen’s assessment of them. Boring blokes (just kidding) reading this – run a mile if you’re with one of these girls – they’re bad news.
Speaking of news. The women who most protest about hating drama, are in fact most likely to be overly dramatic and according to research there are a couple of reasons women create drama. On the level we’ve alluded to – women instigate drama and often wallow in it because it re-ignites a romantic spark they feel is missing. Or they’re create drama to simply put their men to the test.
During these tests they will judge quickly how well men handle drama, whether their men have a capacity for patience, courage, will and passion that’s these blokes will show is either present or missing.
The spark women are looking for by creating a drama is sometimes an attempt to recreate their early courting days, when they were left wondering if the man likes her as much as she likes him.
So if you’re with a Drama Queen and you have the balls call her out next time, let her know you’re not having fun but you know damn well she is!
