Akothee has shared her 13 rules, as she ushers the new year 2023.
The singer and entrepreneur, madam boss Akothee reveals that 2022 was a lesson to her. It was a whole school curriculum she further adds.
“I learnt a lot, I fought a good fight, I won some I lost some but most of it, I survived, I survived. This year I dint make trips to the Hospital, I fought for my mental health and YES. This year apart from the pregnancy discomforts, I would not have stepped into any hospital. Please be aware of your mental status,” she says.
Akothee continues to say, “Be true to yourself, always stand up for yourself and if others stand for you it’s a bonus. You have only you to live and to love in this world . Never live a double standard life to Please others , most people are suffering more than you, they won’t even care if you are living a good life or not.”
For you to win in 2023, madam boss advises that you start off with a positive mind.
Here are Akothee’s 13 rules for the year 2023.
YOU ARE A WINNER, the battle field is not in the world, its in your MIND.
1. Only call those who call you back
2. Respect yourself enough to say No without feeling guilty
3. Quite any job that makes you feel miserable you won’t perform
4. Any relationship that is causing you pain and sleepless nights is not worth it .
5. Respect and love your family, but create boundaries to protect your sanity
6. Never allow people to disrespect you twice ,familiarity brings contempt
7. Not everyone in your circle is worth knowing your moves ,some people in your circle are smooth operators ,you can see it clearly in their faces, they will calculate with you to bring down your huddles
8. Never try to convince those who have chosen to misunderstand you, kwani why are their opinion so important? Will it change the person you are ?
9. What people say about you doesn’t matter ,what you say about yourself holds a whole vision of your future protect it .
10. Always talk positive about yourself, you are the only real cheerleader in that group, shout Louder I AM A WINNER ,even when you are losing, give yourself hope.
11. Believe so much in yourself until people think you are insane, it’s only you who have your vision at hand, the rest are just spectators
12. Most of the people following you are monitoring your moves ,that’s why some of them celebrate when you are miserable and feel soo bad when you are happy ,people feed off your lifestyle, LIVE GIRL THEY ARE WATCHING
13. Be kind to those who are kind to you ,but don’t allow yourself to be a doormat, givers must create boundaries since takers have no shame.
