There have been mixed reactions after a newlywed virgin lady shared photos of her blood-stained sheet on social media slamming those who doubted her virginity.
The lady identified as Ihechi Mary Ebe, on Monday took to her Facebook page to reveal that she kept her virginity from childhood until marriage. She said that it was always her desire to break her virginity while in marriage.
Though she said the act of breaking her virginity was painful, Ebe noted that she was proud that she did it with her husband.
While sharing her ordeal, Ebe also slammed those who doubted her virginity as well as her ex-lovers who wanted to engage in sexual intercourse with her before marriage.
“Yes, I have given it to the only man who deserved it and worked for it.
Although very painful, but, I am fulfilled because it was my sole desire to do this after marriage.
For those who castigated and doubted, you can rest now.
And for you who called yourself a lover, attempted to rape me to have it by force, God has put you to shame.
Ohhh, I fought so hard to keep my vow to God, and I am so fulfilled having succeeded and I thank God for the man I call husband. Four years of patiently waiting isn’t moi moi,” she wrote on her Facebook page.
Her post has however elicited mixed reactions from her social media users. Some Facebook users have noted that her actions are a great lesson to the new generation who are impatient to keep their virginity.
Others also slammed her for sharing her bedroom secrets with the world and did not need to show her blood to the world just to prove her case.
Below are some of the reactions from the social media users:
Innocent Okey Amandi: Say it Loud and Loudly too… Morals, Mored, and Values still exist… Congratulations.
Nengi Anita Obed: In those days, when a young girl marries, elders go to inspect. In some places, a selected few will be present when your husband disflowers you. More recently, the sheets are inspected for blood stains to ensure she was a virgin. This is to say, the news of a young girl being disvirgined by her husband has always been a news for the public, this should bring pride and honor to the family name and husband. I remember hearing how my pastor disvirgined his wife countless times, he has told that story and how it happened so many times.
Chinagorom Chigozie Anozie: What made the other 5 virgins foolish was that they had no extra oil in their lamp…in all thy getting, get wisdom. If you get a husband please get wisdom, if you get a job, please get wisdom, and if you get virginity also get wisdom. I see lack of wisdom at play here…it is your husband’s place to tell people that he actually married a virgin, it’s not a contest. Anyways CONGRATULATIONS ON YOUR VIRGINITY
Dorathy Dumale Ayim: Mary what are you doing? You don’t need people’s approval to make or prove a point. I actually got scared on this post….. it’s scary…. anyways you are a virtuous woman. Congratulations.
Nwa Stan: Congratulations my sister. Ur case is different. U never had the knowledge of it. But some who go out there to do their things will come and tell u, I will not do it until after marriage. While the place is something else. God bless your home.
Ada Nwafor: Girl, what exactly do you think you’re doing? Pull this post down. Anyone who doubted you, doubted himself. This is between you and God pls. Take down this post.
