Apostle Anselmn Madubuko Admits To Falling In Love With Emmy Kosgei While His First Wife Was Still Alive

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Nigerian preacher Anselmn Madubuko lost his first wife in 2012 and by 2013 he had already married Kenyan gospel singer Emmy Kosgei.

Speaking to the Standard, Emmy said she really prayed hard before she accepted Madubuko’s marriage proposal.

The Kenyan gospel singer said she didn’t want to marry the Nigerian preacher because her family had so many clergy.

“I actually didn’t want it. Because I grew up in a pastor’s house! My mother is a pastor, my father is a bishop, my brother-in-law is a bishop, my sister is a reverend – I’m surrounded by pastors. I’ve grown in it. So I wanted something different – a quiet life. I never thought I would be in that position but I have come to appreciate it,” Emmy Kosgei said.

Speaking on courting Emmy Kosgei during an interview with journalist Olushola Ricketts, Madubuko said the Kenyan singer turned down his marriage proposal saying he was too old for her.

“When I told her I wanted to marry her, she felt it was strange. I was yet to know her well too. She told me I was too old for her. She said I was more like a mentor. It was God who convinced her and her family. How many fathers would allow their daughters to go to Nigeria for marriage? They read many negative things about us daily. Also, she was a single and young lady while I was a widower with three kids. There are many things that didn’t make sense naturally. But her father is a man of God and God touched him. I thank God it was her because I couldn’t have chosen anyone better,” said Madubuko.

The Nigerian apostle also confessed that he fell in love with Emmy Kosgei at first sight while his wife was still alive, even though he didn’t pursue her romantically then.

“I knew the lady many years ago when I went to preach in Mombasa, Kenya. Then, my first wife was still alive and I told my friend that I liked the way she sang and carried herself. They spoke well about her and told me her father was a bishop. Later, I invited her team to Nigeria to sing in my church and people loved them. At that point, there was nothing between us.

“But many people believed we were having a secret affair even when my wife was alive, but I didn’t go out with her or touch her until we married. I also admired the fact that she did not trouble me for marriage like many others.”

Anselmn Madubuko and his wife Emmy Kosgei.
Anselmn Madubuko and his wife Emmy Kosgei.

Speaking on his first wife’s death, Madubuko said;

“She died in 2012. I didn’t expect her to die when she did and I was not in the country. I left Nigeria on a Wednesday night and we still spoke when I got to the airport. The next thing I heard on Friday was that she had passed on.

“She was not sick; it was a sudden death. If she had been ill, I wouldn’t have left her. As a strong woman that she was, she didn’t show signs of weakness as well. Our family doctor of over 25 years did his best but told me there was no life in her any longer.

“I was more confused than annoyed when I heard the news of my wife’s death. I was too shocked to feel anything. She was in her 50s when she died; we were age mates. The only time I felt bad was the day of her burial as it dawned on me that she was really dead. But before then, I kept thinking she would wake up because she was really a strong woman. I couldn’t go to the mortuary to see her, but I had to see her during the lying-in-state.”

Madubuko also disclosed that his decision to remarry hurt to many ladies. He said many single and married women alike quit his Revival Assembly Church in Lagos when he married Emmy Kosgei.

“My decision to remarry generated a lot of attention from the public but I don’t care about such a thing. When my heart doesn’t condemn me, I don’t care. I don’t need to impress everyone. I don’t need to prove anything to anyone because I owe only God my life. Those close to me knew I was led by God.

“When my wife passed on, every woman wanted to marry me. I was getting text messages from different women, who were telling me that God told them I was their husband. I got messages from members of my church and other women. If I had stayed unmarried for two years, I cannot imagine what would have happened to me. When I finally remarried, many single women and even married ones left the church. This is not a joke; it happened. I thank God I didn’t promise anyone marriage or was dating anyone; I didn’t owe anyone anything. Also, I didn’t need to marry anyone recommended to me.”

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