Dear Martha,
I am 25 years and I work. I leave with my 30-year old boyfriend who has two children.
Every evening when I get home from work, my boyfriend question me about what happened at work and where I went after leaving the office.
He knows that I had a boyfriend before him but the guy and I broke up.
One day my boyfriend and I were quarreling and I told him that I would always love my ex and he will never match him.
But we later patched things together and we apologized to one another.
Martha, I think something is wrong with my boyfriend. I have occasionally caught him smelling my panties after I put them in the dirty laundry basket.
I am not doing anything suspicious that would make him smell my dirty panties. I am thinking of leaving him. Every time he gives me money, it is a fuss. He is a little mean. I don’t know what to do about him.
Mercie
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Dear Mercie,
The are various reasons why your boyfriend might be smelling your dirty panties. He might be feeling insecure and he wants to find out whether you have slept with another man.
Or maybe he is carrying out fetish behavior. Perhaps he is getting sexually aroused by smelling your panties. Some men are sexually aroused by body smell while others love to put their fingers in a woman’s vagina and smell it.
You might be surprised to know that some men’s fetish is to have sex with a woman while their woman is asleep. That is the only way for them to maintain their erection.
Some men have sex with a woman while she is asleep call the act ‘stealing piece.’
Some men have foot and shoe fetish and they will always sniff at their woman’s shoes or feet.
Whatever might be going on with your boyfriend, should encourage him to go seek the help of a family counselor or psychologist. You can also talk to him and inquire about what is going on with him to make you understand his problem.
If he refuses to go seek help, you should break up since he will always accuse you of having another man while you are faithful to him.
Martha.
