It’s a simple principle really: Be a catch and surely you’ll be caught. What I mean is that women seek men who are sought out by others.
Right? It’s a simple truth that people feel good about acquiring things that they know other people will want. The same is true of women and the men they want. Allow me to explain…Men should already know that women want a man that makes them feel secure and safe.
However, there’s something else that I realized the other day listening to a couple women talk. It’s something I kind of knew already but never burned it to memory. The men that women really want are men that are wanted by other women.
It’s no secret that men and women want to find someone that is the proverbial “catch.” With women this is especially evident.
I never really thought much about that until now. Guys, just having other women interested in you and showing interest in you ups your desirability by several points. Why is that, though?
Women, like I said earlier, want a catch. They want to know that they’re getting someone that is high quality. One way a man demonstrates his quality is by how much he is wanted and adored by other women.
Many times, a desired and chased man is a man who also presents a challenge as well. A man with options is a man who can take his time to decide; a man like this is confident, or at least he should be. A man like this intrigues and attracts women.
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No woman wants to have a guy because, well, he doesn’t have any other options. Why would a woman want someone like that?
It’s odd, but this is how some women are wired.
I’d say that many women outgrow this behavior at some point, but I’ve seen more and more women chase down the chased man… It’s an interesting phenomenon to observe, really.
With this knowledge in hand go out be that carrot that the women chase, fellas.